The Self-Destruction Of The Woman...

This blog was coming...simply because the last 4-5 women I have met or even talked to, all have kids...so I had to do this...not to diss them, but to give a wake up call to the ones who are headed down this path...

So im at work the other night...and I get a text from this girl I used to talk to a while back that said "I know this is random but its been on my mind. I want u to know im sorry for any pain I caused. Ura good person and I didnt mean to hurt u! Goonight..." See the way I think, Im on some ish like she wants me to reply so she can think I still care...so i didnt say anything...damn her...its her loss. I may seem bitter...but thats how it is...so my other friend said about the situation, and I quote "So she has a heart lol. I've stopped dealing with a guy for whatever reason and after a while, he may get a text saying, " I'm sorry about the things that happened. Hope all is well. " Or whatever...its not because I definitely want them back...I may be bored and just want someone to occupy that moment or I may just want to clear my conscience. I think a lot of females may feel the same way. We just want the attention for a min and then I go right back to NOT thinking bout ya." Wow...so of course I had to load the guns & fire back...and this is what I said..."well thats why she will never be able to achieve happiness on a mental or relationship level, and she will always depend on a man for a "quick fix" until she's back feeling lonely again...people like that aren't good for anybody...especially for her daughter, who will see men come in and out of her life...and that is why women have the warped sense of values they have now...because of that way of thinking...its passed down from generation to generation...im glad my mama never had that going on...and that my sisters dont either, and neither will my nieces...women are taught to look for the bad so quick, they forget about the 80/20 rule...and then they end up like that, cause men throw themselves at women so women never have to look, its always right there, but eventually, they gonna wake up, be 38, no permanent establishment, no stable environment for themselves or their children cause of the "quick fixes", and they will end up by themselves with a empty hole where their beliefs & values used to be..."

Again...this is food for thought ladies...this could be happening to you...